C.S. Lewis, on the death of his wife
Via psychobabble“No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear. I am not afraid, but the sensation is like being afraid. The same fluttering in the stomach, the same restlessness, the yawning. I keep on swallowing.
At other times, it feels like being mildly drunk, or concussed. There is a sort of invisible blanket between the world and me. I find it hard to take in what anyone says. Or perhaps, to want to take it in. It is so uninteresting. Yet I want the others to be about me. I dread the moments when the house is empty. If only they would talk to one another and not me.
There are moments, most unexpectedly, when something inside me tries to assure me that I don’t really mind so much, not so very much, after all. Love is not the whole of a man’s life. I was happy before I ever met H. I’ve plenty of what are called “resources”. People get over these things. Come, I shan’t do so badly. One is ashamed to listen to this voice but it seems for a little to be making out a good case. Then comes a sudden jab of red-hot memory and all this “common-sense” vanishes like an ant in the mouth of a furnace.”
- C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed
The very man who has argued you down, will sometimes be found, years later, to have been influenced by what you said.
– C.S. Lewis (via reluctantbuddha) Via the reluctant buddhaThose who intend on becoming great should love neither themselves nor their own things, but only what is just, whether it happens to be done by themselves or others.
– Plato (via reluctantbuddha) Via the reluctant buddhaYou are a beautiful person Doctor. Clearheaded. Strong. But you seem always to be dragging your heart along the ground. From now on, little by little, you must prepare yourself to face death. If you devote all of your future energy to living, you will not be able to die well. You must begin to shift gears, a little at a time. Living and dying are, in a sense, of equal value.
– “Thailand” - MurakamiI want to write stories that are different from the ones I’ve written so far, Junpei thought: I want to write about people who dream and wait for the night to end, who long for the light so they can hold the ones they love. But right now I have to stay here and keep watch over this woman and this girl. I will never let anyone - not anyone - try to put them into that crazy box- not even if the sky should fall or the earth crack open with a roar.
– Honey Pie - MurakamiBut lest some suppose, from what has been said by us, that we say that whatever happens, happens by a fatal necessity, because it is foretold as known beforehand, this too we explain. We have learned from the prophets, and we hold it to be true, that punishments, and chastisements, and good rewards, are rendered according to the merit of each man’s actions. Since if it be not so, but all things happen by fate, neither is anything at all in our own power. For if it be fated that this man, e.g. be good, and this other evil, neither is the former meritorious nor the latter to be blamed. And again, unless the human race have the power of avoiding evil and choosing good by free choice, they are not accountable for their actions, of whatever kind they be. But that it is by free choice they both walk uprightly and stumble, we thus demonstrate.
– Justin Martyr (135-165 A.D.) in his First Apology.Reading makes a full man, meditation a profound man, discourse a clear man.
– Benjamin Franklin (via reluctantbuddha) Via the reluctant buddhaClarity of mind means clarity of passion, too; this is why a great and clear mind loves ardently and sees distinctly what he loves.
– Blaise Pascal (via reluctantbuddha) Via the reluctant buddhaWhen we look deeply into our fear, we see the desire for permanence. We’re afraid of change. Our anger, our fear, our despair are born from our wrong perceptions, from our notions of being and non-being, coming and going, rising and falling. If we practice looking deeply, we find out that these notions cannot be applied to reality.
– Thich Nhat Hanh (via psychotherapy) Via psychobabbleMy father considered a walk among the mountains as the equivalent of churchgoing.
– Aldous Huxley (via reluctantbuddha) Via the reluctant buddhaHuman beings have existed for 250,000 years; during that time, 90 billion individuals have lived and died. You’re one of 6.5 billion people now on the planet, and 99.9 percent of your genes are the exact same as everyone else’s. The difference is in the remaining 0.1 percent - one nucleotide base in every 1,000.
– David Shields, The Thing About Life is That One Day You’ll Be Dead (via psychotherapy) Via psychobabble
